Queerly Defining.

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Defining.

I set up Queerly Defining because of my own experience and relationship with my queer identity. In fact, I wanted to understand it so much more deeply, I actually collaborated with a Coach to do some exploring.

I realised I had made a lot of assumptions:

  • about who I was and who I am

  • about how I connect to queer life and community

  • and about what that means for me and my future.

I had such a profound experience, we wanted to create a community of similar spaces for others to explore, co-discover and find a personal sense of freedom.

Queerly Defining: Founder
£17.50
Every month
£192.50
Every year

Join Queerly Defining as a Founding Member! Packed full of benefits, what's unique about this membership is you are guaranteed a fixed cost for life, or until you end your membership. That's a huge saving of £82.50 PLUS one month free if you pay annually. Only available for the first 20 people to sign up.


✓ All Queerly Defining: Warrior perks
✓ Membership pricing fixed for life

Membership.

Queerly Defining: Tribe
£15.00
Every month
£165.00
Every year

✓ Access to the community chat (Wire)
✓ Monthly Coaching Video
✓ Additional digital content

QUEERLY DEFINING is a space for LGBTQ+ people to:

  • create Freedom

  • co-discover

  • build community

There are different levels of engagement for you to choose from. Remember, as with any area of change or growth, what you get out of the experience is in direct relation to what you put into it.

Queerly Defining: Warriors
£25.00
Every month
£275.00
Every year

✓ All EVO Tribe: Member perks
✓ Monthly 'Defining Live' Zoom
✓ 10% off all group programmes
✓ 10% off individual Coaching sessions
Queerly Defining: Ultima
£85.00
Every month
£935.00
Every year

✓ All perks of a Queerly Defining: Warrior
✓ 1 x 45-60min individual coaching session per calendar month

Benefits.

You choose the level of engagement you want to have, and what best suits your commitment to yourself.

Change doesn’t just happen. True change requires energy, courage and work. But sharing that load with others can make it fun, more enjoyable, and most importantly, more likely to stick!

Once you’ve decided how deep you’re willing to dive to create the future you want, answer this … “what is gained by waiting until tomorrow?”

  • We run our Community Chat through Telegram, the industry's most secure end-to-end encryption.

    We use Telegram because it isn’t Meta owned, and doesn’t require you share personal details with us or other users.

    It’s secure, but has brilliant capabilities for developing communities.

    We use Telegram over other options because of their safety options:

    • you do not share personal information with other users

    • we can, and have, restricted users abilities to save and screenshot content

    • all data on community channels auto-deletes after 1 month; so your data and thoughts do not remain in the ether

  • Each month, we release a pre-recorded video for community members only.

    Videos are accessed through your account on the website, and each video has a specific coaching challenge or tool to support you in creating change. Some may also come with downloadable content for to help make the most of video.

    We are always here to support you, but also recommend making use of the community for deeper exploration.

  • We love this one!
    Live sessions are when you discover more, and become more confident with being bold.

    Once a month, the Queerly Defining Warriors and Ultima get into a Zoom room together. By being present in the room, we immediately build community, and accountability.

    By accountability, we mean responsibility to yourself and tribe to do the work. And the work is what will ultimately be what creates change

  • Some of the memberships come with additional discounts for products and services..

    These discounts are design to help you go deeper in your learning, create more space for growth, and challenge you to be more accountable in your own life.

  • I hope that you enjoy your membership. I hope that it energies you in exploring and creating change. But when you’re regularly achieving success, you may decide to go it alone. Information on how to end your membership can be found here.

Identity Matters.

  • Having an identity can give you a sense of belonging. Belonging is one of the most important elements for your wellbeing and confidence.

  • Understanding yourself well helps you make choices that are consistent with your values, beliefs, and goals.

  • A strong sense of identity can help you understand your likes, dislikes, motivations, behaviours and relationships.

  • A strong sense of identity can help you form meaningful connections with people who appreciate and respect you.

  • Identity is critical for maintaining a solid sense of self. It's the glue that holds us together, even in the most discombobulating of circumstances.

Outcomes.

Cards on the table: what you gain from belonging to our community will depend entirely on what energy you put it.

Whether you’re working on yourself or collaborating with your Tribe, your energy will begin to increase where you are placing your attention. So, be intentional!

If you are serious about a deep and impactful experience, do not waste it be fooling yourself into thinking just being a member is enough. Be active, you might suprise yourslef.

If I wait for someone else to validate my existence, it will mean that I’m shortchanging myself.
— Zanele Muholi

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